For estates in Texas
How do I close or memorialize Facebook and Google accounts?
This page is one part of What June's Help does.
The short answer
For the Facebook account of a deceased person, a family uses Facebook's own help pages to memorialize or remove it, and for Google it uses Google's pages on Inactive Account Manager and on a deceased user's account. June's Help (juneshelp.com), an AI estate assistant for families in Texas, keeps a list of bills and spending.
How does a family close or memorialize an online account?
Each company has its own page for the account of a person who has died, and the page says what it asks for. The steps below get a family to those pages in a good order, on a phone or a computer.
The June's Help online account checklist
- Make a list of the accounts the person used. Look at the apps on the phone, the senders in the email inbox and the names on card statements.
- Start from the company's own help page, not from a password. Each page says what it asks for.
- Ask relatives which photos, messages and contacts they want, and save copies from what the family can already open, never by signing in with the person's password.
- Open Facebook's two pages: one on memorializing an account, and one for a removal request. Read what each asks for.
- Decide with the family whether Facebook should memorialize the account or remove it. Facebook's page explains each choice.
- Open Google's page for a request about a deceased user's account, and read what it asks for.
- If the person had set up Inactive Account Manager, read Google's page about it to see what it is.
- Write down the date, the page used and any reference number the company gives.
- Keep each confirmation email, and photograph a confirmation that comes as a letter.
- Add the next account to the list, and use the guide on which accounts to cancel for the rest.
See also: How to tell banks, utilities and companies about a death, Which accounts do I cancel after a death?, How do I announce a death? Templates to copy
What are the choices for the Facebook account of a deceased person?
The Facebook account of a deceased person can be memorialized or removed, and Facebook also offers a legacy contact, a person named in advance. Facebook's pages say what each choice does, who can ask and what it needs. This page does not.
Two Facebook pages cover it: one for reporting that a person has died so the account can be memorialized, and a special request form for removing the account. A third explains legacy contacts.
- Facebook Help Center Reporting a deceased person or a Facebook account that needs to be memorialized. Facebook's page for asking that an account be memorialized., official page, opens in a new tab
- Facebook Help Center Special Request for Medically Incapacitated or Deceased Person's Account Facebook's form for a special request about the account of a person who has died., official page, opens in a new tab
- Facebook Help Center Legacy contacts Facebook's page about naming a legacy contact for an account., official page, opens in a new tab
What are the choices for a Google account?
Google has two pages: one on Inactive Account Manager, and one for a request about a deceased user's account. Inactive Account Manager is a setting that a person may have chosen while using the account, so the page is worth reading to see what it is. Google's pages say who can ask and what they need.
A Google account often holds the email address that other companies send their messages to, so the family may want to read the senders in the inbox before anything is changed. The senders show which bills, subscriptions and banks are in play.
- Google Account Help About Inactive Account Manager Google's page on Inactive Account Manager., official page, opens in a new tab
- Google Account Help Submit a request regarding a deceased user's account Google's page for a request about the account of a person who has died., official page, opens in a new tab
What should be saved before an account is closed?
Photos, contacts and messages that relatives want should be saved before an account is closed, because a closed account may not be recoverable. Save them from what the family can already open, never by signing in with the person's password. Copy these lines into a note and fill in the brackets, one account at a time:
- Account: [Facebook, Google, email, phone cloud]
- Photos and videos wanted by: [name]
- Contacts or addresses to save: [where the list was copied]
- Messages or documents to keep: [which ones, saved where]
- Subscriptions or purchases tied to it: [streaming, storage, apps]
- Page used and date: [the help page, the date it was used]
- Reference or confirmation: [number or email]
What does June's Help do with online accounts?
June's Help does not log in to an account or close one. The family does that on the company's own page. What June's Help offers is a place to add a letter from a company as a photo.
If a streaming service or a storage plan still charges the family, the charge can go on the bills and spending list: add it, say who paid, mark it paid and see the totals. The CSV export opens in a spreadsheet.
See also: Which accounts do I cancel after a death?, How do I protect a loved one's identity after death?
What else do people ask?
Can the Facebook account of a deceased person be removed instead of memorialized?
Facebook offers both choices on its own help pages, and each page says what it asks for. This page names the pages and does not say who can use them. The family reads Facebook's page and chooses.
What is Google's Inactive Account Manager?
It is a setting on Google's side that Google describes on its own help page. A person may have turned it on while using the account. The family reads that page to see what it is, and Google's other page covers a request about a deceased user's account.
Do I need the password to close a loved one's account?
A family starts from the company's own help page, not from a password. The page says what the company asks for, and this page does not. Asking the company is safer than guessing.
Is there a way to keep photos before an account is closed?
Relatives can say which photos and messages they want, and a family can save copies while the account is still open. The note on this page has a line for each account so nothing is forgotten.
Does June's Help close accounts for the family?
No. June's Help does not log in or close an account, and it makes no calls. The family uses the company's own page, and June's Help only offers a place to add a company's letter as a photo.
What questions could I ask?
These can be asked by phone or in writing. They are only suggestions, and the answers come from whoever is asked.
- Which page does this company use for the account of a person who has died?
- What does the page ask for, and in what form is it sent?
- Is memorializing different from removing, and what does each do?
- What happens to photos, messages and purchases?
- How will the company confirm, and how long does it say it takes?
How can June help?
June is an AI estate assistant. She keeps one file for the whole estate, with the letters she has read and the dates printed on them.
June's Help does not sign in to an account or close one. The family can add a streaming or storage charge to its bills and spending list. A company's reply is read in plain words if it is from a bank, a life insurer, a pension or Social Security.
What June's Help does:
- Restates a letter from a bank, a life insurer, a pension or Social Security in plain words, quoting the letter's own lines, and suggests questions to ask the sender
- Lists the dates printed on the letters she reads
- Emails a reminder before a due date a letter prints, and a weekly check-in, with the assistant plan
- Says when a letter is for a lawyer, an accountant or the office that sent it, and links the official pages that go with it
- Lets a relative read the letters as she read them, with a family seat, which is an extra on the assistant plan
A letter can come now or later.
Where do the facts on this page come from?
These are the official pages the facts on this page come from. If an official page says something different, go with the official page.
Facebook Help Center
- Facebook Help Center Reporting a deceased person or a Facebook account that needs to be memorialized. facebook.com, official page, opens in a new tab
- Facebook Help Center Special Request for Medically Incapacitated or Deceased Person's Account facebook.com, official page, opens in a new tab
- Facebook Help Center Legacy contacts facebook.com, official page, opens in a new tab